To say that my life was turned upside down is an understatement. I've been married for 14 years, so things like bills, house maintenance, child rearing, etc. were put in a whole new light. There were days when the bank account was empty. Living the life of extravagance was no longer an option. That sweet bright orange 2011 Camaro RS had to go.
It was time to grow up.
I can honestly say I'm no longer scared. I know I can take care of myself and the 3 C's. I wish John the best with his life, new wife, and new children. I hope he has all he needs, wants, and wishes for. I truly mean that. Of course, those feelings of anger surface now and then, but it's how I choose to deal with them that makes me or breaks me. John is a wonderful father. I will never say differently. I just pray he and I can continue to be team so we can raise the sweet C's and give them full, beautiful, loving lives.
There is always good in EVERY situation. Goodbye to the Haskell Rascals.
And now you know...the rest of the story. *said in my best Paul Harvey voice* :)
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ONCE UPON A TIME....
And now begins a new story. A new chapter in the life of Melissa.
I worried often. How would dating be? After all, I haven't "dated" since the age of 17. Would there be a man out there who could love me AND my 3 C's? Would any man even stick around?? What would it be like to meet a new family? Would I be accepted? How long should I wait before dating? When should I introduce the right guy to my C's? Would I be crazy for eventually remarrying? How would my parents feel? How will my babies feel? ACK!!!!
I settled in to a routine and basically figured I'd be alone for a while. I had accepted that fate.
But, sometimes things happen that I can't explain. God shakes my world up even more than before.
And, that's when I met him.
Let me introduce you to someone very special.
This is Kirk.
He's a fun-loving, horse riding, bodybuilding, golfing, sweet talking, kid wrestling/teasing darling. Oh...and he's a police officer. He came into my life when I least expected it.
From across the gym, he casually walked over and introduced himself. I wasn't very nice, I'm sure. After all, I wasn't really looking for a man...I was quite sick of men already. :)
He is patient, kind, loving, and fun! All of the questions that had run through my head were answered. The timing of meeting my children, my family, his family, etc. felt perfect.
I'm sure there are some of you out there thinking, "What in the world is she doing? Already with someone? Already getting that close to another man? She's definitely crazy and heading for trouble."
It's ok that you think that. But, you're wrong.
Kirk treats my 3 C's as if they were his own. He has no children, so they are blessed to get his undivided attention. I can honestly say I've laughed/smiled more, felt accepted and loved, and I'm becoming very spoiled....in a good way, of course. :)
All of this being said, be prepared to hear more from us! I'm excited to get back into blogging, so be watching for new posts often!
Much love.
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