For Future Reference

I've often contemplated writing a book to my children called, "For Future Reference." I have things that pop into my mind from time to time that I NEED them to know. Whether it be for survival, for necessity, for fun, or just FYI, I want them to come back to my written words. So, from now on, when I write a post like this, it will be called, "For Future Reference."

To begin:

1. For Caitlin: The fine art of makeup is one very rarely understood. The whole point is to appear as though you aren't wearing any/much at all. To do so, go with what looks natural. Play up those gorgeous blue eyes and stay away from stuff that makes you look too old. After all, you are only 14. Oh, and DO NOT start thinking Victoria's Secret is a place you need to be shopping. They make their money off of flaunting women as if they are toys or objects. Yes, I own items from that store, but I am also 31. Take that for what it's worth. Also, you're worth fighting for...always.

2. For Caroline: That front-toothless grin is precious. Don't let any little boy tell you otherwise, even Sammy. You are the sunshine in many lives. I will never stop wanting to hold your hand. Remember the day you told me your heart is the size of your fist and my heart is the size of my fist, so your heart fits in my heart? I could't have said it better. I will hold that sweet little heart in my hand for the rest of my life. Oh, and you can have the flashlight as long as you need it. :)

3. For Christian: It's 100% OKAY to be a boy. Yes, I'll let you be ornery, shoot me with Nerf guns, scare me with your Ironman mask, and chase your sisters with gooey sticky yucky things. Let the strong men in your life be your influences. Eat more chicken/beef, make sure you always say, "Yes Ma'am and Yes Sir" when appropriate, and remember: You make me happy and proud, and I love you.